The story behind the book
The idea for this book was born a long time ago when I realized a need in my life (and I witnessed the need in the lives of my friends, my family and my therapy clients) to have someone to talk to--someone to tell the stories of our most difficult, intimate or challenging times.
Everyone has a significant time in their life when they have been at the threshold of an important life event or faced with a turning point decision.
In my work as a psychotherapist of over 30 years, I have come to know many persons in a time of great need, contemplation or suffering. I have also witnessed many transformations as women and men have made transitions to a more accepting and loving place for themselves. They needed to tell their stories to come to a place of peace.
I know now that this cannot be done alone. Having someone in your life to share your story, to learn from them and to benefit from their support is, in my mind, one of the most important aspects of happiness. There is nothing greater than a sense of connection with others--knowing there is someone else who understands you, who cares about you and who wants the best for you. I am grateful for the many people in my life who have been there for me when I needed to tell my story and to seek support, wisdom or comfort.
I knew I had to create an opportunity for women to tell their stories in a way that would enable them to say whatever they needed to say and for others to benefit from their experiences. Thus, the book idea was born!
To the women who shared their stories and poems for the book, I offer a heartfelt thank you.
To everyone who reads their stories, may they offer you some inspiration and hope.
To all, may you be at peace.
Terri Spahr Nelson
